Update on the ex, is the fact that his local bar needs someone to collect glasses for them tonight as it looks like it will be a busy night, so he as put son up for it to earn him some pocket money and get him a bit of work experience. He is also taking son to some place where he can actually have a go at driving a car, yes he is only 15 but is allowed to drive ex's car at this range and he thinks it will be worthwhile to let son have a go. ex's wifey has family that are in business so they are arranging for son to do 2 to 3 weeks work experience in there during the summer break. ex asked me last night to make a list of all dates that son will be available and unavailable, so unfortunately I have had to say about all my outings and holidays I have booked with son. Our big holiday this year will begin the eve of son's 16th birthday we actually land in turkey as he turns 16, wow cant wait, not sure if ex will like that though, tough, he hasnt been around for his last 5 birthdays so it shouldnt make that much difference, I also stated that son wont be available for a week in june due to the fact he is staying with my parents for a week whilst i go on vacation with my girlie friends, although I havent told ex any information on any of the above, i just merely gave him the dates, so at least he can see that we do get on with life and go places without him
