I am sorry to see that your father isn't 100% yet. I do hope that they can find out what is wrong with him. This is starting to concern me.
As for your xh, he is very jealous and resentful of you. Why? Because you took a bad situation and turned it around to make your life more successful He doesn't like the fact that you are able to move on and have accomplished what you've done w/o the help of another person, i.e., like he has had to do with the ow.
Take him to court and let them garnish his wages. Have them set it up whereby your funds are automatically taken from his checks and put into your account. That is the only way to get around his crap. BTW, he doesn't care about anyone but himself.
I could just wring his neck.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
MissH The best revenge is to live the better life.
And as you see, that really does p!ss them off. He lost his control over you. He doesn't have that satisfaction he expected or the joy it was going to bring him.
Bigger isn't always better. You'll make happiness wherever you are. He won't be happy in any home. They come with strings attached, and pressures he wanted to abandon.
He won't be happy in any car. He just won't be happy. He left saying you made him unhappy; they all do. He thinks you're still keeping him from his happiness. What's holding him back? They just continue this downward spiral, trying to fly through their storm. Let the courts set boundaries while you watch from a safe distance. Skip through the commercials!
Take care and love yourself, your kids, and your dad. List the many blessings you have, instead of the problems. Your blessing will grow, your problems will fade, and your X will always be an @ss.
no sireee.....i did not give him that upgrade for nuthin'!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Well, he's going to have to face the consequences of his actions. I don't feel sorry for him one bit. I hope they garnish his wages to ensure that you get what you need to take care of things for you and your sons. He's such an @ss.
How is your father? How are you making out w/the snow?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Yes, we got more than we bargained for with this winter season. We are now going to have snow showers tonight and tomorrow morning with additional snow on Monday into Tuesday. I don't know about others, but I'm just about sick of winter this year.
I do hope that you and Ms. H can catch up with each other. She's a wonderful lady.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
