OTMT, as far as I know, H has never been in an affair during our 10 year M.
Interesting about that book...H ordered it on the same day that he dropped the bomb on me about how hopeless he felt about our M (dec 22, 2009). At that point I really don't think that he had a plan to separate from me. I think I accelerated that happening by my desperation/pursuing .
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
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