If you are on then you can become a fan of this web site divorce busting. There is also a group called divorce busters. Those are the best hints I can give you.
Well, I am having a bit of an issue with that. Apparently when I accidentally signed up, my e-mail address is in the system, so I requested that that account be deleted----which apparently takes 14 days to accomplish (couldn't see how I could change my name on that account, but I guess I'm not as computer savvy as I thought). In the mean time, I thought I would sign up using my work e-mail-----however, since I work for a school, I can't confirm the account from my work e-mail (FB is a no no on the school server). I've forwarded it to my home e-mail address and will give that a shot, but......probably won't work, and I may have to wait the 2 weeks to be deleted. Even though I wasn't confirmed I was able to search for "divorcebusting," and saw that DeeBee Flomom was a "fan"....so I think that might be the route to take. I didn't get a chance to try OP's suggestion and search divorce busters as a group. Hopefully someone else can help with some more clues.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12