#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[flowmom]

Well, H just left for the night. I was interesting because he wanted to tell me in person about his travel plans with his mother, and the fact that his brother was coming to stay with him in 20 days, and that he had the children's medicine set up. Nothing that he couldn't have communicated by email or another time. Wondering whether to regard that as a babystep. He didn't seem as angry or pumped with adreline as he often has. And he isn't totally clammed up as he has often been, as if just talking to me would be some kind of concession to me. I was really good...I just interestedly received his info then politely asked "is that all?" as if I was wanting to get back to my computer.

I find it interesting that his brother is coming to stay with him for 2 weeks. I just don't see H allowing his brother to stay with him for 2 weeks if he was conducting a torrid affair in his apartment right now. And H wouldn't want his family to know his business if he was doing overnights with an OW. My H is an all-or-nothing kinda guy. My guess if there's a woman involved, it's an EA or just a desire to have an A, but not there yet. Doesn't prove anything, but IMO it's on the "no PA yet" side of the evidence.