Better day today. Maintaining a focus on the positive things in my future, while keeping myself from looking at the past had helped tremendously.
We're in tandem, again! You recently posted (sorry, I forget where) exacty what I've been looking forward to/concentrating my thoughts on:
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I would add what I did, and it has worked for me. I made myself stop focusing on W and our past and why W refuses to work on the M. Instead, I have devoted my mental and emotional energy to the positive things that lie ahead for me: -being independent again -deciding where I want to live and what type of housing I want - condo? House? -realizing things I want to do but haven't -realizing there is a world of women out there who will be interested in me and, at some point, one of them will be the right one for me. -thinking of all the things (trips/activities) I will decide to do with my kids.
An exciting GAL/180 (for me, at least!).
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
