Hi Antlers, I'm doing well this week... just got back from visiting D15 for an extended week-end. She is doing very well & I am proud of the young woman she is continuing to mature into.
Things are progressing along with the D.. I'm taking the parenting children of divorce class as that is required in our state.. after 3 years of counseling & about every self -help book on R's I could get my hands on... it was a bit tough to sit through 6 hours of basic communication, child welfare & conflict resolution.
Financial pieces of the D are finally agreed to & we just need the mediator to write that portion up, have each of our lawyers give them a final look-see at the whole thing & then sign. Once that is done.. my lawyer can get it to a judge & it can be 'done' that same day. ETA for the D.... end of the month.
I am continuing my GAL.. I have recently started my own meetup group (a wine lovers group- sadly lacking in a town of this size), I signed up for a divorce care class through a local 'super-church' that starts in a few weeks, I have some dating profiles up on a few of the free sites, I volunteer at one of the local dog shelters once a week, work out at the gym 3-4x a week, and am active with a couple of women's groups & newcomers group here in town as well.
StBX keeps doing things that reminds me why I needed to get out of that unhealthy R... I keep trying to remember to thank him...
Thanks for stopping by & checking on me. Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
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