Checked H's AIM. IMs from OW say "ily" (i love you) and "thanks for dinner tonight". He saw her tonight! What to do? Ignore him all weekend, tell him I know and see what happens, or just pretend it didn't happen and act as if.

Suggestions?

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89