If you are cool where you are because you are too scared to rock the boat then fine.
And that seems to be the largest problem amoung the LBH's that first arrive here on the board. They are filled with so much fear that it paralyzes them.
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I have been much better about not begging, pleading, etc. Although I do screw up, I am not as desperate. I will occasionally say something like "Are you ready to work on the marriage?" I try not to say "I love you" but often slip up -- usually during a goodbye hug.
Oh, ick!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
