Cool re the opera. I have never been. I should go sometime.
I think what you, perhaps, don't realise is that he didn't make you feel alive (although it might feel that way) --- you allowed yourself to feel that way again. YOU!
Just my opinion, but I cannot believe that anyone can make one feel alive. We do that for ourselves, and allow people in or not.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim