She came back down and wanted to talk more. We had a long, calm discussion about how we got to where we are. In some ways, it was weird to have this talk because she has never been so open about the tough issues with me. She usually shuts down when it comes to the tough stuff. I called her on a few things she unfairly attributed to me. I even for the first time let her know that I have reached a point where I now know that it was not just my fault that we are where we are at. She agreed. I stood my ground but was very calm, cool and collected. I did reiterate my point that while I think things could work out between us, that I was tired of the lies and that I can no longer tolerate it. I told her that we both have decisions to make about where this us going.
