Weird question. Do you have to be in the same room when the papers are signed. I don't really know how the process works -- I will soon. And I don't want to be there in the same room when the end comes. I was in the same room for the important things -- the M, the birth of our two beautiful girls, her dad's funeral, when she found out one of her best friends died in a motorcycle accident.

I was there for that stuff. I don't want to be there for the finale.

Piece of advice on visiting your girls. They are older than mine. When I first moved out, I was over there a lot. And I just really resented being in the house. I was able to work it out where I am almost NEVER at the old house. The girls come over here. It is truly a second home -- although I eventually need to rent or buy a house because they have restrictions here they don't at home.

But at least here I am king of my castle.

Get your girls to your place as much as possible.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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