Thanks. It just burns me to think this @$$ is walking away scott-free
. . . so far . . .
Remember what the Bible says about vengence belonging to God. I don't believe anyone gets away with anything. You may never know about it, but he will reap what he has sown.
Another reason to not interfer with things right now is the fact God could be removing this man from your W's life and thereby helping her to be able to heal and get OM out of her system. You don't want to mess that up due to how this is causing you to feel. You've endured for a long time, just hang strong for a bit longer.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!