I will add my prayers to the rest already being said for you and your covenant M. May Retrouvaille (sp?) be a blessing for you both. ...lemme know as it may be a need for me and my darling.
Best of luck at Retrouvaille. I will be thinking about you all weekend. You are an amazing person to go on this roller coaster ride. I hope it will be more enjoyable in the future!
Trent, I've been following silently as well, and add my best wishes and prayers for you and your W at Retrouvaille. I hope it helps you at least as much as it did my M.
Also, just to let you know I had a minor hiccup that did not seem so minor at that time (well actually it was just a week ago!). Reminded me again of the fragility and difficulty of piecing your M no matter where you are on that road. But also that with love and faith, nothing is impossible. I'll let you have some details if you are interested on the alt.
Cheers.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
Reminded me again of the fragility and difficulty of piecing your M no matter where you are on that road. But also that with love and faith, nothing is impossible. I'll let you have some details if you are interested on the alt.
That would be great. I assume you know who I am there...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Best of luck at Retrouvaille. I will be thinking about you all weekend. You are an amazing person to go on this roller coaster ride. I hope it will be more enjoyable in the future!
Amazing is probably the kindest thing I've heard to describe this journey.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Best wishes for your weekend, Trent. I missed the recent posts- I'm so sorry your world was rocked like that. I hope your W was sincere in what she said, and that this weekend helps both of you.
I'm joining the others in cheering you and your W on at Retrouvaille . It says a lot that you are both willing to do it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
OK, I will be off of the grid for the rest of the weekend.
Thank you all for your love and support.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement