Trent, I've been following silently as well, and add my best wishes and prayers for you and your W at Retrouvaille. I hope it helps you at least as much as it did my M.
Also, just to let you know I had a minor hiccup that did not seem so minor at that time (well actually it was just a week ago!). Reminded me again of the fragility and difficulty of piecing your M no matter where you are on that road. But also that with love and faith, nothing is impossible. I'll let you have some details if you are interested on the alt.
Cheers.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.