Well, I VERY calmly confronted her and told her that I am tired of the lies and that I can no longer live like this. I told her that we both have decisions to make about this R because I don't plan to sit around while she continues to see OM. She is upset and crying now and left to go to bed. She tried to bring up the fact that I went to one MC session and didn't invite her. I told her to stop, that she had not shown one once of interest on her part for working on MC since the bomb. She said she doesn't know how we could ever have a good relationship again after this and I told her by working together on it but that as long she is seeing OM, that won't be possible. I told het that I may be willing to continue working but only after she shows an effort on her part.
She said she doesn't know why I still love her. I told her that that was the vow I took and that I took it seriously.
