Folks

I need some advice, bad night tonight. I have been thinking things have been getting better with W and maybe they have. However, W left her email open and I found that she has been lying and is still seeing OM. This weekend, she told me that she was taking two cooking classes in NYC, however, I have email confirmation that she only took the one and then met up with OM. Oh, and by the way, a few posts up, she had told me that she saw a movie with a female work friend while I was out of town. Wrong again, saw it with OM. Found many other instances of her lying about where she was while she was really with him.

My first instinct was to react and confront but thought I would post here for advice. I don't see a lot of ILY stuff but it is still lies, lies, lies. Should I confront, if so, how should I do it being that I confronted before and said all of the "I won't be in a M with a third person".

I am really stressed right now but calmer than the first time I found out. Any advice is appreciated


Me:41
W: 35
Married: 6
Together: 15
Bomb: 08/09
Currently: Investing in me!

"You can't do anything about anything you can't do anything about" - Larry King