sad subject for all...

for "us" Valentines was never that big of a deal...dinner a card sometimes flowers

we are big Nascar fans...the Daytona 500 falls on Sunday which is also Valentines day...we have been watching quite a bit of all of the extra stuff that has been on leading up to the race...

although i know NOT to expect anything...should i try to make other plans? should note that i am MUCH more comfortable at home in front of my 65in hd tv...and i would be able to cheer with the girls even if he isnt around, which i would enjoy...

but, no card or anything? am i correct in thinking it would be pressure? or would it be ok to get something along the lines of silly to show that i didnt forget?

Last edited by lost1234; 02/12/10 01:52 AM.

me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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