Why is it that when I'm acting happy and all dressed up my H is cold and acts annoyed with me?

If I'm sad, and crying then he is all sweet to me?

What is up with this different behavior?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10