Good luck at Retro. It is a lovely quaint town. Keep in mind that it is not a retreat or marriage counseling. It is forward looking without digging up the past. I hear it can be quite emotional, so be prepared for tears. Go with no high hopes of miracles or expectations. Keep an open mind.

You may need additional answers to her recent deceptions, but now is not the time to pry further.

I got a laugh out of what your MC said - "codependent as hell"!