Well, he's going to have to face the consequences of his actions. I don't feel sorry for him one bit. I hope they garnish his wages to ensure that you get what you need to take care of things for you and your sons. He's such an @ss.
How is your father? How are you making out w/the snow?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.