Update on sitch

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IH, Yes, I relate to your situation. X is still w/OW. He has shown flashes of remorse over that time, but nothing else. I have also gotten flashes of their relationship.

-She calls if he is here two seconds longer than he "should" be.
-There were no pictures of them together.
-He orders her around. He left his phone on and my answering machine recorded their conversation.
-In a moment of X drama, he said he would marry her. I suppose it's possible but something tells me the longer things drag on, the more reality intrudes and the less likely it will be. I hope so, anyway. I keep hoping OW will just disappear.

I also think they now have intertwined finances, so separating from her would be difficult, and I have a hard time imagining X living by himself.

So. Three years is a long time. Has it been three happy years? Something tells me not. It is not the sort of relationship that I would want and if that is what he wants, I am certainly better off without him!