I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

Thanks Pearl!!!!! I promise I'm not making any assumptions. The realization the H would probably NEVER do all the things I would need him to do to make this work is why I feel so DONE. The person I married dosen't exsist anymore and I wouldn't give the current bodysnatcher the time of day under normal circumstances - ever!! Its just hard to not miss what we HAD at one point...

Dudess - You are SO right. I'm not including any of that crap about my role - thanks for helping me see!!!!!

I'm not going to let my feelings get in the way of my decisions -I've paid attention to the posts - I know that would be stupid!! Thats why I feel a little guilty that standing up for myself beats the crap out of someone else...

I'll think about the meeting. If I don't meet him now I will always have to meet him later as things progress - so I might just skip this one since I feel so unsure.

I want to become the WAS - I think that would be best for me. Not meeting with him seems like the right thing to do with that plan in mind.

Part of me just doesn't care if he sees the changes... Its almost like I feel they are TOO GOOD for him to be able to enjoy them - like he dosen't deserve it. Wierd...


You are right - new information only! If I don't meet him - I will just send the fact/financial stuff. No need to send the other stuff.

You guys do such a good job of keeping me grounded!!!!

Thanks!!

T