I can only imagine how you must feel to be confronted with her image in the news etc. But, it is important to distingush between OW as the "homewrecker" and OW as someone who may be good at what she does a a profession (if that is the case). She is not getting the award for her morals. As others have said , you are getting the award that matters. And your H is being very supportive. I like that.
I know a medical professional who is at the top of her game, great personality, her patients just love her and she would be deserviong of any award she could get in her field. I know this personally. But I found out recetly that she is involved with a married man. That shocked and disappointed me . So you see what I am saying? I know you know there is a distinction between the personal woman and the professional woman. It still hurts, right? I can only imagine.
Not sure if what I have said helps and it is easy for me to say it from afar.
