Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[flowmom]

JG, the surgery issue: I would just drop it. Yes, that's super icky, BUT remember that he is spending his time with OW talking about the children that join you and him together and he is making those children his priority. It could be worse! And although he indirectly brought up OW in front of your D, it was very indirect.

BUT
I'm thinking what's important here is how I project that
I am doing...to my kids, and H.

Yeah, fake it until you make it and keep making babysteps towards GAL.

I'm thinking about making some plans
for the weekend which is a GAL moment for me. Over the years I have put myself SO far down on "the list" that it is embarrassing when I think back on it. I will tell you this NEVER AGAIN!!!

I'm with ya (((JG))). Your homework is to post here what your plans area. How about hike on Saturday afternoon, followed by dinner and a movie with a friend, then a yoga class on Sunday morning?