To finish.... Monday was my birthday, he got me a card from the kids and that hurt but at least he got me something right? A counselor called me and we set up a time to meet yesterday. I called my H and said, I am here and I want to work on this. The only thing I need you to do for me is tell me if this isn't what you want. I won't ask and I don't want you to tell me when your waffling. He said of course. Went to counselor, she is going to call him to set up an appt. He said he'd go himself, but has not commited to MC. He just won't say anything. I don't know what to think or do. He was here last night to see kids. It went great, he hugged me before he left. Today he is a little quiet. How do you deal with the mixes signals, mixed messages? I am so confused. If I knew why he was unhappy, or what is it about our M that scares him. Any insight good or bad is needed and appreciated.
I should have mentioned. We have a D12 and S3. We had D at 21. We met at 20 and were married at 27. We are both 34 and have been together for 13 years.
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
