I can understand how that would triggering! Sometimes we just have to write our own story. I vote for you to make an award...for yourself! "rockedworld is rocking DB" and add lots of glitter and sequins. Give it to yourself privately accompanied by music and champagne.

I'm giving you advice that I should follow myself. So many of my victories over the last few years are ones that society wouldn't celebrate or acknowledge. But I did those things and they weren't easy and they are the accomplishments of my life. I fail to celebrate them because others don't.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.