I am pretty well read on the subject so I know how to deal with it and how to act, but none of that makes it easier.
At some point in time my kids are going to figure out I want nothing to do with this guy and are going to ask why. I do not intend to bad mouth him but I am not going to support him either...tricky. They are so young I think I will be able to get away with just being vague...just say it is an adult issue and leave it at that for now. I do not want to lie but I need to shield them as well. Agree?