Darn it, Red. My anxiety level just shot up for you, girl.

Re: question above, if it's not desperate and not out of the ordinary, I don't think you're coming across as pursuing by initiating S. Be careful!

About the snooping, you need to know what's going on. You know what the possibilities are, you've done hard things and you can still do them.

Hang in there.

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H-36
3 young children
Married-14y