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WHAT A DUFUS!!!!


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PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
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Oh Lol frown I'm so sorry. I'm two steps behind you. This most certainly isn't going to be easy but needed to move on with my life.

I feel your pain, literally I do. I keep telling myself this is for the best and I know that it truly is.


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Wait, now he says that there were no changes, just that I needed to add the car information.

I told him uh you never sent me your car information.

He will get it to me later.

OMFG!!!!!! I cannot figure out how I feel...hurt...anger... disgust...or pity for the death of his brain!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I know what you mean.......this morning I felt like taking a machine gun to his lower region. But then a little I was sad. UP and down, all over the place.

Hopefully he gets that to you sooner rather than later so this can be a thing of the past.


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I know I hate this. I mean, how the hell did I become this woman who is so wrapped up in this dumb stupid man?

After 2.5 years, you would think I could be over this.

But sometimes it still hurts like it just happened.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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OH LOL again, again ....
same here 2.5 years think I'd be over this stupid man.
And yes, hurts like it just happened.

You took the words right out of my mouth.
Have finally made a decision as to which lawyer I'm going to use.
Hoping to meet with him next week.


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Been listening to "Not Gon Cry" Mary J a lot lately!
VERY empowering for me. Especially when I'm at the gym.


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I am hoping the D is over next week. At least then I know it is done, and I can move ahead.

I feel like I have been punched. I am sitting at my desk trying to control the tears so no one will see me crying as I leave. It is a losing battle.

Dear God, I just want my husband. What's wrong with that?

Why? I know there is no real answer to that question, but I want to scream at God Why? Why? Haven't I been through enough in my lifetime?

This is horrible. I feel like I have made a giant leap backwards.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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(((Lola)))

I had to put a sticky note on the papers telling him which line to stand in to have them reviewed (since it was w/ no attorneys the court clerk has to look them over before they'll accept them, but you can't do it all in one line of course), then to stand in the line to file them, how many copies of each to have, etc etc etc. He tried to go once and "couldn't figure it out" *rolls eyes* It's obviously too difficult to ask the clerk for help. Which is what I did. Cuz I didn't know how many copies I needed either!

You will get through this hon. Luckily you can bounce forwards again quickly.


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((((((((((((((((((LOLA))))))))))))))))))))))))

You'll be fine, you know it....just breathe. Slowly..........

How is everything else going right now? The cruise is a fun thing to plan and dream about. What else are you planning?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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