Right now your definition of 'success' is very narrow and limited to: Getting back together with your wife, and a wonderful marriage with sex and romance on demand.
And no one here with any ammount of time under their belt uses that definition as success.
Some of the best advice comes from people who are no longer married to their MLC former spouses.
They are successes because of who they became, not who they are with.
Was anyone here at fault in any of this? Their MLC?...more than likely, which straw breaks the camels back? Just the last one? Or could it be the first one?
The decline of the marriage? Despite protests from some to the contrary...definately. Absolutely.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
