I have a lot of lingering resentment which I don't think I can ever get over.
That's understandable.
Originally Posted By: OhGodNotAgain
Her behaviour when we split was appalling.
Yes it was.
Originally Posted By: OhGodNotAgain
I may be arrogant, obstinate etc
Yup, and you need to work on that.
Originally Posted By: OhGodNotAgain
but I have a string sense of morals and a good code of honour.
Good for you. Don't lose those.
Originally Posted By: OhGodNotAgain
My ex-wife's are 'flexible'. She told me one of the reasons why she wanted us to try again was because she needed somebody strong.
Well.... that's her problem.
Originally Posted By: OhGodNotAgain
she's a bloody flake most of the time.
Why do you think I told you (on your other thread) not to get involved with her again. To stay as far away as possible?
But then again... you didn't listen... instead you probably slept with her again... and when she reverted to her selfish behavior you came back here to whine. I thought you were going to treat her as a FWB from now on. I guess not. See what happens when you play with fire?
This woman knows how to trigger off the worst in you. STAY AWAY.
I hope you've learned your lesson.
Now go back to work on yourself. You've still got a few issues to resolve.