awest,
he is not clear yet in his head. No matter what he says and does, he is still in a fog. It takes time to get the OW out of his system. You have GOT to be patient. You are both so young, you have your life ahead of you, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, please keep your expectations in check right now. I get the feeling he is thinking of coming home but he is not "done done" yet with her in his head, dont push him away now, attract him to you. By being confident, strong, fun, let your best in you shine.
I know you are frustrated, I have been there, I AM there still. I think you have a good chance to reconcile, as we say in Greek, you ate the donkey, dont stop at its tail, meaning, you have come a long way, dont explode, become overly emotional, impatient now. Hang on...
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009