When do you request your spouse end an EA?

[MrBond]

Well it sounded like you were condemning her for doing things for herself like dressing sexy to boost her self-esteem and going out. This isn't being needy. She obviously has shown that she doesn't "need" him.

I saw you post to another person to get out of the house when their S comes home. This is the same thing.

She's just gaining back her self esteem and self respect.