BA, it sounds like you are finding some peace and from where I'm standing that seems like a good thing. I think that what we all want from DBing is to not be the one to close a door that we want to leave open (reconciliation). But when reconciliation stops being something we want, and we can make that decision with peace in our hearts, it makes sense to end the DBing chapter of our lives.

Keep up the smoking cessation!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.