I don't want to see him - he KNOWS how good I look because people keep telling him. I have met with him, on his terms, EVERY time he's asked, so denying him the meeting is a 180. But more importantly - not seeing him helps me deal. Every time I see him I revert back to the me who missed him horribly when he left - I still love him, I'm still attracted to him and I can't handle the torture.. especially after 6 months of celibacy Plus I already feel bad about how this financial situation is breaking down - I don't want to cry or back down.
I was just trying to make the point that I've shown I'M trustworthy and He ISN'T and can't be considered that at all. I might take that out......
The past tense is strategic....
The "deserve" words will hurt his feelings and since he's made the point several times that I deserve better I want to voice that I agree... I haven't agreed every time he has said it...
The negotiate thing.. He wants us to sit down - just the two of us and negotiate the D terms and then file jointly. That's HIS point of this meeting. L told me NO WAY - stupid on my part. I need to keep this legal process separate and I need to make it clear to him that there is not way I'm filing jointly. PLUS why would I sit down and talk to him nicely when he's having an affair - I don't owe him any time at all since he's giving all his time to his whore.
He can clean out the joint acct if he wants - as of March 1st the majority of the $ in that account will be his...
I'm calling his bluff on filing - I don't think he has the balls.
Collaborate may not be the best way to word that...
I'll revise and post... You guys are really helping me think this through.
T
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
Plus I already feel bad about how this financial situation is breaking down - I don't want to cry or back down.
