it's confusing for sure! haven't heard a word from him today...and yesterday he treks through a blizzard to see me! all i can control is what i do in response, so i'm trying not to sit by my phone and go out and get a life...although, as many have said, it's really hard when i'm snowed in and transportation is a nightmare!
i know what you mean about always having to think about things, like, what did he mean when he said that, what did it mean when he did this??? it's very tiring and i guess at some point (probably the point at which you just let go) you just have to stop over analyzing everything.
i did talk to a great new life coach on the phone today...not quite a DB coach, but after 3 sessions, i couldn't really afford more and this person is much more affordable for me, so that's the route i'm going. it helps me keep my head on straight and it's also really nice to have a completely objective person to talk to.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
