CLV, you are likley right about my W honoring the parenting plan agreement, as least for the entire year. However, she knows contact with me and the OM right now would be bad. I would give him my perspective on things and I know she does not want that (and she knows I would do it!). If anything I am hoping this agreement will give me 5-6 months to better adjust to the situation.
My W has shown emotion for dissolving the M but it has been very infrequent and short-lived. When we had our parenting plan talk she almost started crying when she started thinking about how happy she use to be and how loving I have been the past couple of years. Currently, she is focused on the D and seems happy...too happy in my opinion given the circumstances.