CLV, you are likley right about my W honoring the parenting plan agreement, as least for the entire year. However, she knows contact with me and the OM right now would be bad. I would give him my perspective on things and I know she does not want that (and she knows I would do it!). If anything I am hoping this agreement will give me 5-6 months to better adjust to the situation.

My W has shown emotion for dissolving the M but it has been very infrequent and short-lived. When we had our parenting plan talk she almost started crying when she started thinking about how happy she use to be and how loving I have been the past couple of years. Currently, she is focused on the D and seems happy...too happy in my opinion given the circumstances.


Me41 W43
M9 T13
S8 D6
Bomb 1/4/08
EA Discovery 7/10/08
S 6/13/09
2nd EA/PA Discovery 7/15/09 (same guy)
D-Day 3/8/10