Again, isn't it a given (aside from horrid physical abuse) that the breakdown of a marriage is caused by TWO people?
Since your W is not posting here we can only "talk" to you.
Of course, I made a lot of mistakes in my marriage. I also put a lot of things right. At least I tried which even being on this board is testament to. My ex-wife would never waste her time doing what I'm doing.
I honestly think sometimes there's just too much sh1t lucking in past to go back there. That's the conclusion I've come to.
I may not be the easiest person in the world to get on with, I am opinionated and stubborn. Unless my ex-wife is prepared to make changes and stops putting the responsibilty on my shoulders - as you guys are doing - then it's hopeless.
