Doesn't EVERYBODY need to work on their communication skills?
What if everybody said to you "yup, you are 110% correct, your W's communication skills are terrible" what good would that do? Not much as you can't force somebody to work on their communication skills. If they do decide to work on their communication skills it might not be "your way". Then what?
The reason all the focus is on you (generally speaking) is the simple fact you can't control anybody else but you. You can't make somebody do something.
Because I needed to hear it's not ENTIRELY me. I heard all that for the twenty years I was with her. I don't want to hear it anymore. I accept I need to work on myself. As I say in my other recent post, I'm on the wrong forum.
