I don't feel comfortable about confronting OW either, thanks for the advice.

I've decided to leave the house for the night and go to the library.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10