lostnotgone,
The detaching is the hardest thing I've ever tried to do too. And I have not been very good at it either. He gives me a tiny little positive sign, and I melt. I hate that he has that affect on me.

You sound like you are doing good, keep up the good work.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10