Hello, hello, hello fellow DB'ers....

[blindsided1]

Just checking in to see how everyone is doing. ExH is up to his old tricks. His hours shifted to swing shift. So, he now, periodically, calls me at night...usually to see if I'll bite when he asks me to talk dirty to him....plllleeeeeaaaasssse. Not even if he paid me. So, he says "hey, if OW texts you and asks you about any late night calls I make, tell her it was an accident. My butt called you." I said, "hey, got a better idea. Don't call me." And, I hung up. It was AWESOME. I felt on top of the world. Feels good to have some control back. But, nonetheless, it didn't deter him.

Then I come home last Friday and he is taking me back to court to lower the child support...yes, the child support he ISN'T PAYING. Little does he know....there is Child Support Services Attorney acompanying me because it's in their hands, now. He has no clue. It'll be interesting to see his face. So, I can pretty much count on the crappy ExH showing up sometime soon to call me names and belittle me and tell me how awful I am.

Bring it on. I'm not afraid of him ANYMORE.