Sorry stuck, i dont' agree with much of your post above, but I certainly welcome your opinion.

The fact that she didn't SAY she would date other men, does not at ALL dismiss the point I made that it's a bad idea.

No, you can't predict what a spouse will do, but you can forecast... based on as many samples as you can put together.. it's called science.

Do something different yes... but not do something dumb.