This is where you validate her feelings with "yes I can see how you're scared. It is scary at times to not know the future. But then again no one can.
Right now take the focus off of her. Act how you were when you two were first M. Just not too over the top.
You acting romantic is the last thing she needs. For a woman, you have to slowly build the emotional connection with her first. Start with a pleasant conversation. Then a longer conversation. Get her to laugh and lighten up so she is not concentrating on the sitch. Make her "forget" the sitch and the pieces will fall in to place.
stuck - thanks for the words
strange thing is that is pretty much what i was doing, but was not sure about how to biuld the romace back (if possible) or if i should be attempting it this soon - want so much to she her smiling and laughing again.
hope this is the right road i am on!
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
