"WAW is now talking about future and being scared she will not get "feelings" back, and she has "given up"....also told me she wants to be "in love" and it is upsetting her that she does not have these feelings for me."
This is where you validate her feelings with "yes I can see how you're scared. It is scary at times to not know the future. But then again no one can." Don't push the "giving up" portion.
Right now take the focus off of her. Act how you were when you two were first M. Just not too over the top.
You acting romantic is the last thing she needs. For a woman, you have to slowly build the emotional connection with her first. Start with a pleasant conversation. Then a longer conversation. Get her to laugh and lighten up so she is not concentrating on the sitch. Make her "forget" the sitch and the pieces will fall in to place.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
