I'm not sure I understand how not being able to refinance the house in her name makes her only choice taking full custody of the girls. What is that about?
She was trying to work out a deal where her mother paid off the second mortgage ($14,000) and W refinanced the rest. That would have put her well under the fair market value and dropped her payments $400 a month.
Then she wouldn't need so much from me.
Somehow the refinance fell through.
It may not have been a situation where it fell through or rather advice from her attorney not to refinance until after the D.
AFTER speaking with her attorney she tried to cancel the appraisal. The bank had already ordered the appraisal.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
