no idea what to do......

[gman]

in short my situation is changing rapidly and not too sure how to handle this - long and short WAW is now talking about future and being scared she will not get "feelings" back, and she has "given up"....also told me she wants to be "in love" and it is upsetting her that she does not have these feelings for me.

i have been working on me so hard lately i never even considered what to do IF/WHEN the day may come that i had the chance to move forward with her....

so here is my delemia - i am not a romantic person by nature, but i feel that one thing i need to do for her (as well as myself) is show her what it is like to be loved and "in love" again. she has not fully committed to the idea of working together towards the future, what do i do? do i continue with the 180 approach? do i continue to hang back and let her watch me?

got to figure the 5 love languages is going to pop up here isn't it

(oh....first intimate touching we have had in 4 months last night!)