Hi Calystra,

I was going to let David answer you first but he probably won't post till midnight or so and I will be in bed by then!!!

I think David is still undecided on whether he wants his own thread or not and according to a friend from the bb I did overkill on trying to make it clear to him that I am not pushing him in any direction on that decision.

I think David is getting quit a bit of support on this thread from time to time so I am hopefull that maybe they have made him feel welcome and supported.

I think more than likely the slowing down of things would be good for David and mines communication. We do a little bit of emails and I have I think, David could say, gotten much better and taking lots of time with them and really trying to be clear when I write.

I think even our IM's and phone conversations have slowed the pace down a bit and we both do more thinking before responding. I still have a long ways to go I know. But I am much better at seeing it when I mess up now and apologizing. I remember you told me one time you are going to slip, but make amends and work to do better next time. I haven't forgotten a lot of what you told me, it just slips off somewhere from time to time.

I think I like the idea of having the two separate threads. I noticed when I post on this one I feel a bit more restrained and apprehensive maybe at times. Actually have not posted much recently, not anything serious anyway. Plus since David didn't want to read my thread I wasn't sure how much he was comfortable with my placing on this thread.

I think if David is interested in trying this we need some guidance, at least I do, in knowing what you mean to post on this thread.

Thank you for dropping by Cal, it is always so nice to 'see' you again!


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"