Do not hold a mirror to her behaviour. Behave like a man. Be a man. Be strong and be civil. Do what is right. Even though it kills you at this time. As I said to you before our lives are very long. What your doing here is skipping some rocks in a pond. Problem is the water is choppy and you need to calm the water down until it is like a sheet of glass. Then you can start to skip the rocks again. Cause they don't bounce in the waves.
And if you have not done this in awhile. Go do a GAL and skip rocks in the water. Each rock is a problem. Toss it and see how many bounces it takes before it sinks to the bottom. Then notice the ripples and how long they take to disappear. Notice how far they travel and how they sometimes collide. Think of your problem or issue in that manor. Each bounce is a solution to the problem. And then go work on those problems.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!